每日一词：“小三劝退师”

“小三劝退师”

Mistress Discouragers

“‘小三’的问题非常突出，可以说是势不可挡”，某咨询机构首席咨询师明丽对澎湃新闻说。

The issue of “mistresses” has become very serious in today’s society, which can even be said to be unstoppable. ” A chief counselor in a counseling agency said to The Paper.

据了解，最近十年，面对出轨这件事，越来越多女人选择和第三者斗争到底。

According to him, in the last decade, more and more women have chosen to fight with the other women who intruded in their marriages.

寻求“小三劝退”服务的客户中，女性占九成以上，除了一部分比较年轻的80后外，最多的还是40到50岁的女性，家庭经济条件大多比较好，很多都是富商老板家庭。

Over 90% of the customers who seek the service of “Mistress Discouraging” are female, most of whom, except for a small number of post-80s, are females aged forty to fifty with well-off family background. And many of them are the wives of rich bosses.

咨询师介绍，劝退“小三”，四种疗法最常用：移情疗法，即帮助“小三”找到更好的男性；移位疗法，就是帮她安排工作、生意，让她离开本地，但前提是安排好她的人生；介入疗法，就是通过她的亲戚、朋友、同学来说服她；厌恶疗法就是让“小三”发现她所不知道的男方的缺点以及男方隐瞒的事实。

According to the counselor, four therapies are most frequently used to discourage the “mistresses”. 1) Empathy. Help the mistress find a better male partner. 2) Displacement. Help the mistress find a job in other regions and have her leave the local place, but the prerequisite would be that her future life will be secure with your arrangements. 3) Intervention. Persuade the mistress to leave the customer’s husband with the help of her relatives, friends or classmates. 4) Aversion. Let the mistress discover the shortcomings and other disgraceful facts hidden by the man from her deliberately.

在培训中，“小三劝退师”则被要求认真维护“一夫一妻”的婚姻法律，绝对保护个人隐私，严格执行“维情用心”、“维权用法”的宗旨。

In their trainings, Mistress Discouragers are required to earnestly abide by the legal principle of monogamy, to absolutely protect personal privacy, and to strictly follow the tenets of “touching the heart with love” and “protecting the rights by law”.

来源：有道词典&澎湃新闻